"forgive everyone for your own sins and be sure to tell them you love them which you do"
— Jack Kerouac
I think I have a grudge or two. I'd try and think of what they were - but then, would that be helpful - would it give me a loving heart? I'm not sure. I think I should pray to let go of a grudge and feel forgiveness in my heart instead of caring the burden of a grudge.
I thought I had a grudge on some of the school bullies from high school - but I found that those same men, who were boys who made fun of me and my sister, were sending balloons to my sister in her hospital room or even visiting her when they were in town. Those men were no longer boys. They had grown up.